The decision to finally have children is probably the most
important one in a person's life, and most likely, most personal one.
I mean that everyone has hos or her own idea concerning this issue.
When it comes to kids, a lot of other side problems are being raised,
most of them are of financial character. For example, the salary is
not high enough, as well as, the position held, there is not enough
space in the app, and, finally, the responsibility to take is
extremely great. Consequently, there can be some arguments about
the moment for bringing children to life. Usually, men take here more
pragmatic point of view, while women are eager to have children much
earlier. On the other hand, there can be a situation when a woman
tends to deal with her career at first, and only then plunge into
family life. Conflicts on this very ground may even lead to the
family collision and divorce. And what make it worse, it is extremely
hard to reach a consensus here.
Personally I had a situation
similar to the second variant, I wanted to get promotion and only
then take maternity leave. My husband was against this, since he
believed that I should have been the base of the household. We were on
the edge, ad I decided to give up, but not to the full extent. I've
become a freelancer who works at home. As a result I have some kind
of career development, as my portfolio is quite impressive now and an
opportunity to raise my newly born son up.
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